About

"You only get one life. Build a business that leaves space to enjoy it."

Hey, I’m Tanya, Life-First strategist, storyteller and advocate for slow mornings with strong coffee...

But let’s rewind, if you met me Eight years ago, you’d have met a very different person.

I was running a £72k/month in person Coaching business, Managing a large team and building an online personal development membership all whilst regularly featuring on front pages of UK magazines.

On paper I “had it all” and had created the empire that the internet tells you that you should idolise.

But behind the scenes? I was exhausted, resentful and drowning in credit card debt.

Then in December 2018 everything changed.

I looked around at the life I’d spent 7 years building and I realised didn’t recognise (or even like) myself anymore.

Every part of my life was wrapped up in performance, perfectionism and proving I was worthy of the success I’d built.

It was at this moment it hit me: I couldn’t keep building a life I didn’t want to live in.

So I walked away.

From the big revenue, From the expectations and from the version of success that never fit me in the first place.

And in doing so, I gave myself the space to finally ask:

What do I actually want my life to feel like?

It took me a few years to recover from girl boss conditioning.

But eventually, during the slowness of Lockdown, I felt peace for the first time in my entire life.

Not the "two-week holiday" kind.

The kind that sinks into your bones and says “This was supposed to be the whole point"

That was the moment everything clicked and I finally understood the assignment was to consciously and fiercely protect what truly matters to me;

Slow mornings with my coffee, the freedom to take spontaneous hikes on weekdays and to be present for the little (but actually big) moments with the people I love.

I’ve built four additional businesses (This one makes number five) since then and here is the lesson it took me over a decade of successes and screw-ups to learn:

Most people don’t need anywhere near 7-figures to live a rich life.

What they do need is the courage to stop designing their businesses around other people’s expectations and start building it around what actually works for them.

Now just so we’re clear, I’m not some infallible expert with all the answers...

I make mistakes, I still have shit days and occasionally I spiral over whether I should just open a cute little coffee shop that sells cat merch in the Scottish highlands.

But what I can promise is to bring you the very best of what I’m living and learning, while keeping it real and honest as I go.

Plus 14 years of real, lived entrepreneurial experience (not theory) building multi-six figure brands, occasional dry humour and an unwavering devotion to help you build what I call a life-first business.

Now, If you’ve read this far, thank you.

I know how many tabs you probably have open and I want you to know that my approach is not business as usual.

I don't believe in squeezing your life into a copy-paste blueprint that promises 6 figures or chasing someone else’s version of success.

I believe in designing a business that honours your values, reflects who you are, supports your lifestyle and gives you space to actually enjoy your life while you grow.

If that’s the kind of business you want to build, the best place to start is The Lifestyle Letter.

It’s where I share what it really looks like to build a business that's stable, scalable and gives you the freedom to spend your time however you please.

The Lifestyle Letter!

Join me each week in The Lifestyle Letter for sustainable strategies, success stories and mindset shifts to help you launch, grow and monetise a life-first online business.

My Weekly Newsletter

As you might have heard, though I run an online business, I spend as much time offline as humanly possible. If we’re not connected yet and building Life-First is your vibe, my weekly newsletter is the best place to start.

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